These days, phones in our pockets are changing our minds and hearts because they offer qualifying fantasies

According to Sherry Turkle, the Margaret Mead of Digital Culture that texting, email, posting, all of these things let us present the self as we want to be. We get to edit, and that means we get to delete, and that means we get to retouch, the face, the voice, the flesh, the body — not too little, not too much, just right.